Your Feminine Force: A New Era of Leadership

What the heck does feminine force mean? Years ago, this question used to stump me. I would see women who seemed to possess incredible confidence and demonstrated a unique leadership style – one that would get people to do what they wanted and have a great time while doing it. It was one of my deepest desires to find a way to possess that type of power. I wanted desperately to drop my mask and show up as truly Annette, powerful and confident, versus some inauthentic version of myself that I believed others would like. That approach was a disaster – I was miserable, and others found me insecure and phony. I knew my life had so much more to offer, so I went on a quest of self-discovery and, over time, learned tools that led me to unleashing my own authentic feminine force and possessing the power I had only dreamed about. It has become my passion to teach other women how to do it, because it can be learned and practiced. Every woman has the ability to access their authority. I’ve witnessed hundreds of women transform and find their own unique feminine force, and I want to give you concrete tools so you can tap into yours.

We’re living in an unprecedented time. Women’s leadership is needed and wanted more than ever, yet we’re still following playbooks written by and for men. We’re trying to lead using masculine frameworks that often feel foreign to our natural strengths. The question isn’t just about leadership – it’s about what true, powerful feminine leadership looks and feels like.

When I think of feminine force, I think of the strength and power of water. It’s powerful not because it pushes, but because it flows. It finds natural paths and shapes things over time. Using your feminine force is the ability to create and initiate change by working with life instead of against it, just like how a river shapes a valley or how a mother’s love can transform a family.

Women possess the unique power to create life within their bodies. You can call it the most remarkable and defining aspect of feminine force. This same creative force extends beyond reproduction – it’s the innate and unique ability to bring dreams into reality, whether in career, relationships, or personal growth. Just as a woman’s body knows how to create life, her feminine energy can transform her deepest desires into physical form.

Yet too often, we disconnect from this natural creative force when it comes to living our daily lives. We’re taught to think our way through life instead of feeling or envisioning our way forward. We suppress our sensual nature in favor of logic and structure. Society celebrates masculine approaches to achievement – pushing, forcing, hustling. But what if your deepest desires – and your most powerful leadership – are waiting to be birthed through your feminine essence?

Through my work with hundreds of women, I’ve discovered five key elements that unlock a woman’s feminine force:

1. Sacred Stillness / Meditation
Through meditation, we quiet our mind and tap into our body’s deep wisdom. This is where true knowing – and authentic leadership – lives. When we learn to sink into stillness, we access the inner guidance and wisdom that’s always been there.

2. Celebration
Honoring our victories and successes builds an unshakeable foundation of confidence and self-trust. When we fully acknowledge and celebrate our wins, our entire energy shifts, inspiring others through authentic success. In addition, sharing our successes with trusted, like-minded women allows us to create sisterhood relationships that are deeper because of our willingness to be open.

3. Gratitude
Having a regular gratitude practice is essential in unleashing a woman’s feminine force. Acknowledging gratitude deeply becomes our natural state, and from this place of abundance, leading becomes effortless.

4. Desires
Writing and voicing our deepest desires without shame breaks through limiting beliefs. Our desires are sacred messages from our soul, guiding us toward our highest purpose and most authentic leadership.

5. Movement
Moving our bodies in alignment with universal creative forces connects us with our natural rhythms. Our bodies know how to lead the way in creating the life and leadership style we desire.

This approach taps into our natural creative wisdom and leadership potential. Just as our bodies know how to create life without conscious instruction, they know how to create everything else we desire – including our unique leadership style.

I’ve witnessed hundreds of women transform their lives through these principles – launching dream businesses, finding their authentic voice, creating revolutionary change in their industries, and stepping into their natural authority. These aren’t isolated successes; they’re examples of what happens when women trust their feminine essence.

A woman’s feminine essence contains creative power and authentic leadership skills. It’s time to trust it, embrace it, and let it guide you toward your deepest desires and most authentic expression of leadership.

As we move into this new era of leadership, let’s remember that our greatest power lies not in mimicking masculine models, but in embracing and expressing our authentic feminine force. The world is ready for a new kind of leader – one who leads with both power and pleasure, strength and sensitivity, vision and vulnerability.

The future of leadership is feminine, and it starts with each of us claiming our natural creative force.

About Annette
Annette Freeman is the owner of Goddess Portal Coaching. She is a life coach, and vision-holding guide, who helps women unlock their authentic power through pleasure-based leadership practices.